What it looks like:
Working memory deficits tend to appear differently to those looking in from outside than to the people experiencing them. This is especially true during childhood, when adults may interpret failure to complete tasks as defiance or laziness. Some examples include:
- Difficulty remembering and following multi-step instructions, especially when other things are pulling at your attention
- Forgetting what someone just said or losing your train of thought while speaking
- Re-reading the same sentence multiple times before it “sticks”
- Walking into a room and not remembering why you went there
- Trouble completing assignments or goals because you’re caught up in the details (“Can’t see the forest for the trees”)
- Forgetting to put things away once you’ve finished using them
- Frequently being late because you forgot the start time, mixed up the bus schedule, or left a crucial item behind
- Feeling exhausted and frazzled by your daily routine
- Interruption rage, a.k.a., feeling angry or upset when interrupted mid-task or while trying to remember something
- “Out of sight, out of mind” challenges, such as:
- Keeping dozens of open browser tabs so you don’t forget what you’re doing
- Cold cups of coffee you forgot about after a few sips
- Buying the same thing twice because you forgot you had it
- Cluttered workspaces full of half-finished tasks or things you’re afraid you’ll forget when they’re not in front of you